Is the Holy Spirit leading you daily?
John 3:5 - "Unless one is born of the Spirit he cannot enter the kingdom of God."
You have to intently focus when you want to make a change in your life and it takes practice. To make a change in your lifestyle you need to intentionally practice it for a while until it becomes natural to you.
This is how the Holy Spirit works. If we intently allow the Holy Spirit to fill us, and lead us in our daily lives, then God will automatically fill us up on this fuel so that we can run well throughout the day.
One of the most important ways to recognize the Holy Spirit's guidance is to be familiar with God's Word. As a Christian, we are to meditate on the scriptures and commit them to memory. Living this close to God allows Him to reveal His Will for our lives.
The Spirit helps us in our weakness. If we are truly walking in the Spirit, we will continue to see signs of maturity in our lives, and they will become evident to others as well.
Make this a habit in your life. Pray and study God's Word and this will allow us to recognize and follow where the Spirit is leading us.