I heard the above statement yesterday and it is so true.

John 11:33 - “When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in his spirit and greatly troubled.”

The best thing we can do for people when they are hurting is to listen. Open up your heart and really listen to what they’re saying, or even what they’re not saying. When people are discouraged or troubled, they don’t want advice from us, they just want to tell us their pain. Be receptive to people who are depressed or upset about something.

Once someone realizes that you are listening to them and that you are giving them your full undivided attention, then they can start to heal. Then, they can feel safe enough to open their hearts.

Being a good listener is one of the most powerful tools to any friendship or relationship.

Less talk and more listening will open doors to the soul.

Most people don’t even care if you’ve had the same hurts, gone through the same trials that they have; they just want to be heard.

Open your heart and ears to someone today.

We all love the thrill of victory. Some say they get a ‘high’ out of watching their team win a game. I love it when I follow a recipe and the results are mouth watering!

Everyone loves to win, but how are you winning in life? Do you occasionally have little victories on the job that keep you motivated? Are you looking for opportunities to put a spark in your marriage? Are you consistently seeking to serve others?

God wants to give us victory in everything. He wants our life to be successful, our marriages to thrive and each generation to be better than the past.

Victory in anything requires being prepared, being ready for the battle. To obtain victory in Jesus, you must know Him, surrender your whole life to Him, have faith that His promises are true, and trust that He will equip you with the skills and tools needed to win the battles of life.

The Bible is full of victories. Let’s not forget David and Goliath. In 1 Samuel 17, God takes a small young shepherd boy, who was an unlikely warrior, to defeat a giant whom everyone was scared of.

What battle or battles lie ahead for you? Are you creating your own line of defense, or are you relying on God to fight for you?

The victory in this life has already been won.

Get on the winning team with Jesus!

1 John 5:4 - “For everyone who has been born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world—our faith.”

Some of you may know someone who always wants things perfect; someone who likes things in order and gets stressed out if they’re not.

Nobody’s perfect, and if you’re a Christian, you know that our perfection is only found in Jesus, and when He takes us home to live with Him one day, our lives will accomplish perfection.

Jesus doesn’t expect us to be the ‘perfect’ Christian. He asks that we obey Him and succumb to His will, daily. How do we do this? Practice. To be good at something, anything, it takes practice.

So what does this look like? It starts with reading God’s word, understanding life from God’s words. It means knowing God personally, intimately, and spending time with Him.

It also means carrying out His commands of loving one another, serving each other, giving your time and resources to the needy and to those who don’t know Jesus.

Practice makes perfect. Giving your all, every day to God’s will won’t make you perfect, but it will lead you to perfection in Christ.

James 1:4 - “And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.”

There have been seasons in my life when I’ve felt like God was silent. And then there have been seasons of blessings overflowing.

I’ll admit, it is hard to stay thankful in the dry seasons. It’s hard to praise God when life is falling apart. But, I’ll also admit that by praising God, by focusing your thoughts on Him, this is when God is so close. It’s times like these that I can feel God’s arms around me. It’s a peace that you only understand if you’re a child of God.

I think God feels it too. I know the feeling of being needed. Don’t you know that God loves it when we’re reaching out to Him; when we cry out to Him for help? He loves His children and wants nothing but the best for us. He cares when we’re crying.

Whether it’s a dry season of trials, or a rainy season of blessings, I give God thanks. And, I constantly stand amazed at the answered prayers and miracles along my life’s journey.

Be patient in the dry seasons. Know that God’s working behind the scenes. Praise Him regardless of the circumstances you find yourself in.

Stand amazed at God’s presence. Stand amazed at His promises and never forget that He will never stop loving you.

John 4:13-14 - “Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.”

Have you ever been on a team and it felt like you were doing all the work, while others slacked? It’s frustrating and not fair. On the other hand, if you’re on a team where everyone is working together towards the same goal, it’s heavenly.

A successful team requires one main attribute and that’s unity.

When people are working together, with one goal in mind, and each person is giving their best, it will be successful.

The same applies to marriage or relationships.

As a Christian married couple, if you’re both looking to God for guidance, then you’re on the right path. If you’re allowing God to use you for His purposes, individually, life will come a lot easier. To do this, you both have to agree that God is in control, while pursuing God’s Will at the same time.

Now, I’m no expert on marriage, but I have found that leaving God out of marriage will inevitably end in destruction.

No marriage is perfect. God made marriage and blesses those who allow Him to guide it. Even if you’re not there yet, strive for unity. Continue seeking God, even if your spouse is not. Let your light shine and let God work on your spouse.

Pursue God in unity!

1 Corinthians 12:14 - “For the body does not consist of one member but of many.”

You’ve heard the phrase “you are what you eat.” Well, it also stands to reason that we are products of the environment we grow up in.

This typically means that where you grow up and the culture you’re living in may influence decisions you make today.

Sadly, this means that if you grew up in a bad home where alcohol was used on a daily basis, chances are, you could grow up to be an alcoholic.

But, on the other hand, if you grew up in a good Christian home, where your parents modeled Jesus and taught you how to handle money, and how to treat people, then you will probably turn out like them.

This world is getting to be a scary place to live. The norm is to hear of random shootings at least once a month.

There have been many people who have come out of broken homes and who have become successful God-loving people.

With God, all things are possible. So, don’t give up on kids from broken homes. God only knows their past and what they had to go through.

As long as there’s breath, there’s hope.

2 Timothy 3:14-15 - “But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have firmly believed, knowing from whom you learned it and how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.”

You can’t go back, but you can look forward.

Our rearview mirror in our cars are designed to help us see what’s behind us, what we have already passed by. And our front windshield helps us see what’s ahead, so we can drive and steer the car properly.

Many of us tend to use our rearview mirror of life and stay stuck in the past. Instead, we should be looking ahead to our future. What do we plan to do with what God has blessed us with today?

I love the book of James and the first chapter is loaded with information, especially for a new Christian. In James, there’s so much insight on what Christians will face, why they should persevere in trials, what to do when they don’t understand and how they are to go forward.

Looking back in my early Christian walk, I wish someone would have told me about the book of James. But instead of looking back, I’m looking forward to my future. I can’t wait to see what God’s got in store for me. Yes, there may be trials but God will be there in the passenger seat to go through it with me.

James 1:2-6 - “Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.  But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind.”

God gave us each a body and we are to take care of it as best we can. This means we should eat a balanced diet; get a good amount of sleep and move our joints daily.

By doing this, we are investing in our health. We are telling God, “thank you for my body and I will do my best to keep it healthy.”

On the other hand, if we don’t take care of our body by eating junk food, fast food, not getting enough sleep, staying immobile and not getting some type of physical movement daily, you’re playing ‘Russian roulette’ with your health.

People that gamble with their money, eventually lose it. People that take their money and invest it in something that grows and eventually gives back will reap the rewards eventually.

The same is true with time, love and relationships. The more you invest in these, the more fulfilling your life will be.

But the most important thing you can invest in today, right now, is God. Give Him your time; put Him first in all you do; talk to Him and let Him guide your days. And, lastly, tell others of His goodness and invest your time in God’s great commission.

Don’t gamble with your life. Invest in it. Your eternity depends on it.

Mark 8:36 - “For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?”