Triggers

A trigger, used as a verb, is anything that can cause (an event or situation) to happen or exist.

What triggers you, in a negative or positive way? People can say or do something that may trigger a thought. It may bring to mind a negative thought that immediately irritates you. Or, it may cause you to feel angry or resentment toward that person.

Triggers can also be positive. If a child gives you a hug, it may bring a memory of yourself as a little kid being hugged by a parent or grandparent.

Have you even thought of a trigger being an opportunity to show love or compassion, or even an opportunity to teach?

The next time someone triggers a negative thought in you, stop, take a deep breath and instead of reacting in a condescending or angry tone, respond with a calm, loving voice.

Try it sometime. Triggers are opportunities for Christians to respond in a Christ-like manner.

Colossians 3:15 - “And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful.”

Know ahead of time what triggers a negative thought and commit to using it as an opportunity to show grace.

It may not come natural at first, but the more you give grace, the more it will become habitual.