Quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry

Are you a Christian in name only?  Are you constantly repenting from your sins?  You can express your faith not only in word, but also in deed.  Faith is not authentic unless it responds to life in certain ways.  You must have a changed life that demonstrates a willingness to obey God in all things.  


We should be striving to please God continually, not just when it's convenient for us.  We should be taking the time to understand others before jumping to conclusions.  This is what usually gets us into trouble.  Listen carefully before speaking your mind.


Have self-control when you are being attacked.  Being a good listener is a Godly skill.  Understand what's being said to you and if it is an attack, try and let God's Holy Spirit fill you with an overwhelming peace.  Then answer with humility.


It does no one any good to lash out at someone that is attacking you.  You'll be surprised at how your lack of anger may calm them at the same time.  


Listen, slowly speak in love.


Ephesians 4:26 - "Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger."